Valentine Memories

True to my fears, I received lots of "ribbing" from my brother and sisters about having girl friends.  After all, each Valentine card said, "Be my valentine."

After Carma and I were married, I must admit that Valentine’s Day sort of "snuck-up" on me a time or two.  Thinking I was improving the situation, I would say something like, "Honey, I'm sorry I forgot your card, but you know I love you!"  Guess it’s not that surprising to discover this tactic never worked!

Aside from the commercial aspect, Valentine's Day is a great way to show our love to those we care about.  We really need to learn to affirm our love and appreciation to our spouse and children, not just on this day but every day!  Too often we go day after day, even weeks, without saying: "I love you!" or "Thank you for all you do for me!" A gift may not be practical every day, but words of love and appreciation take only a few moments to express.  When they are truly spoken from the heart, they work wonders in our relationships.

Many years ago I had gone hunting with a friend of mine. We had spent all day together but as we made our way home at the end of the day, he insisted that I stop at a floral shop.  There he purchased a gift for his wife.  I couldn't help but admire him for his thoughtfulness.

As pastors of a church, Carma and I took one Sunday every year to express publicly to everyone that attended, just how much they meant to us.  Certificates of Appreciation were given to each one, as we expressed our words of love and gratitude to them.  It was always a meaningful time, some even cried tears of surprise that we had noticed their actions or faithfulness to the congregation and the Lord.  Many had never owned a Certificate of Appreciation before and went right home and proudly framed them.

Everyone deserves to be honored and loved.  I challenge you... put some thought into making every day special to those you love and care about.  You will soon find that special things will come back your way, too.  It's a good way to live life. Luke 6:31  "Treat others as you want them to treat you." (Living)

Until next time,

Tommy Grimes